女生應(yīng)該主動(dòng)約心儀的男生（雙語(yǔ)）

　　摘要:如果你曾經(jīng)想約一個(gè)男生，或者你以后可能會(huì)這么做，下面就是你應(yīng)該這樣做的6大原因。

　　There are still a lot of ladies out there who believe it is, well, unladylike to ask out a man. Why is this still a thing? We can be strong and career-driven but we still have to wait around and hope a man asks us out in order to go on a date? That's just crazy talk. If you've ever wanted to ask out a guy, or you ever do in the future, here are six reasons you should go for it.

　　現(xiàn)在還有許多女性堅(jiān)信，主動(dòng)約男生是不夠淑女的表現(xiàn)。為什么這還算個(gè)事兒呢?我們可以堅(jiān)強(qiáng)，可以發(fā)展自己的事業(yè)，但我們還必須左顧右盼，指望男生來(lái)約我們出去約會(huì)?這簡(jiǎn)直是無(wú)稽之談。如果你曾經(jīng)想約一個(gè)男生，或者你以后可能會(huì)這么做，下面就是你應(yīng)該這樣做的6大原因。

　　1. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger.

　　那些沒(méi)有打敗我們的，只會(huì)讓我們更強(qiáng)大

　　So it's a little scary. So you're afraid of rejection. And yes, getting rejected might make you a little sad. But in the end, getting rejected will just make you realize that it's not a big deal. You lived through it, time to move on and ask out some more guys!

　　這是有點(diǎn)害怕，你害怕被拒絕。是的，被拒絕也許會(huì)讓你有點(diǎn)難過(guò)。但最終這會(huì)讓你意識(shí)到，被拒絕沒(méi)什么大不了的。你會(huì)挺過(guò)去，繼續(xù)生活，再去約更多的男生!

　　2. Because you want to.

　　因?yàn)槟阆爰s他

　　Unfortunately we can't always get what we want. But you'll never know unless you try. You should always go after the things you want, because they might not realize that you want them.

　　不幸的是我們不能總是得到我們想要的。但如果不試你永遠(yuǎn)不知道。你應(yīng)該去追求你想要的，因?yàn)樗麄円苍S根本不知道你想要約他們出來(lái)。

　　3. Because he's been flirting with you and it's driving you crazy.

　　因?yàn)樗恢痹诟阏{(diào)情，你快要發(fā)瘋了

　　Girl, listen. If this guy is flirting with you incessantly, he either likes you or he's an asshole. If you ask him out and and he says yes, congratulations. I hope you guys end up being super compatible and have lots of babies together. If you ask him out and he says no, but continues to flirt with you, now you know he's an asshole. You're welcome.

　　聽(tīng)好了女孩。如果這個(gè)男生總是跟你調(diào)情，他要么喜歡你，要么就是個(gè)混蛋。如果你約他出來(lái)，而他答應(yīng)了，那么恭喜你。我喜歡你們最后能和睦相處，生很多孩子。如果你約他出來(lái)他卻不答應(yīng)，而且還繼續(xù)和你調(diào)情，那么你現(xiàn)在就知道他是個(gè)混蛋了。別謝我。

　　4. He might not even realize.

　　他也許根本沒(méi)有意識(shí)到

　　Much like you are sitting there, have a good time with your friend who you've been pining after for years (or that guy you met tonight who is just SO cute and funny), over-analyzing everything, thinking if he hasn't made a move by now he can't possibly be interested, I've got a news flash for you: The guy could be thinking the same exact thing. Crazy, right? But true. So just ask. Or make your move. Because otherwise…

　　像這樣，你坐在那兒，和這個(gè)你喜歡了幾年的朋友(或者是那個(gè)你今晚才認(rèn)識(shí)，但是特別可愛(ài)有趣的人)度過(guò)一段美好的時(shí)光，把每件事都過(guò)度分析，想著如果他現(xiàn)在還不采取行動(dòng)，他一定對(duì)你沒(méi)有興趣。我告訴你一件事吧：這個(gè)男生也許和你的想法完全一樣。聽(tīng)上去很不可思議，對(duì)嗎?但這是真的。所以問(wèn)問(wèn)他。或者你采取行動(dòng)，不然的話……

　　5. You'll regret it if you don't.

　　如果你不主動(dòng)會(huì)后悔的

　　If you just keep flirting with him (or worse, just kind of existing near him) hoping he'll "get the hint" and nothing ever happens, you'll regret it. You'll always wonder. There is no hint quite as strong as, "Do you wanna go out some time?"

　　如果你只是繼續(xù)和他調(diào)情(或者更糟糕的話，只是出現(xiàn)在他身邊)，希望他能夠“明白你的暗示”，然而卻什么都沒(méi)有發(fā)生，你會(huì)后悔的。你會(huì)一直懷疑自己。沒(méi)有什么比“你愿意和我一起出來(lái)玩嗎” 更強(qiáng)烈的暗示了。

　　6. You'll probably never see him again, anyway.

　　你也許再也不會(huì)見(jiàn)他了

　　This doesn't apply to every situation, but it does apply to most adult situations. So honestly, what could you possibly have to lose?

　　并不是所有的情況都會(huì)如此，但對(duì)于大多數(shù)成年人的情況來(lái)說(shuō)確實(shí)是這樣。所以坦白說(shuō)，你能有什么損失呢?