令男人敬而遠(yuǎn)之的四大婚姻殺手（雙語(yǔ)）
令男人敬而遠(yuǎn)之的四大婚姻殺手（雙語(yǔ)）
你知道在婚姻中有什么禁忌嗎?你做了什么東西會(huì)讓男人敬而遠(yuǎn)之?下面快來(lái)看看下面的四個(gè)婚姻殺手，看看你是不是其中之一。
1. The psycho.
1、神經(jīng)錯(cuò)亂的女性
These women are often beautiful. You are easily blinded by her beauty, though. She has anger outbursts, unpredictable moods, one minute wants a hug and the next is biting your head off. She may have an actual personality disorder and zero insight about her behavior. She may even say she has “bad PMS,” but do not buy that excuse!
這類女性通常美麗動(dòng)人，然而你會(huì)輕易地被她們的美貌迷住。這類女性會(huì)突然發(fā)怒。她們性情難測(cè)，可能前一分鐘想你擁抱，后一分鐘就要你腦袋分家。她們也許真的有人格障礙，對(duì)自己的所作所為全然不知。她們甚至可能會(huì)說(shuō)自己有很嚴(yán)重的經(jīng)前綜合征，但不要信這個(gè)借口!
2. The damsel in distress.
2、待解救的少女
You love feeling like a superhero. Rescuing that troubled woman is somehow so appealing. You must ask yourself -- Why is she always having problems? Why is there always something bad happening to her? Just remember, if you rescue a damsel in distress, you end up with nothing more than a distresseddamsel. Ask yourself what will happen if you needed to count on her. You should not have to rescue a person time and again. The only thing you should rescue is a pet!
你愛上了做超級(jí)英雄的感覺。沒任何由來(lái)的，“解救困難纏身的少女”這事格外吸引人。你得問(wèn)問(wèn)自己：為何她總有各種各樣的問(wèn)題?糟糕的事怎么老是發(fā)生在她身上?你只需記住，如果你解救了這樣一位少女，你最終只會(huì)得到一位憂愁的弱女子。捫心自問(wèn)，假若你需要依靠她，事情會(huì)變成什么樣。你不該沒完沒了地向這種人伸出援手。唯一需要你拯救的只是寵物啊!
3. The control freak.
3、控制欲極強(qiáng)的女人
She’s domineering and bossy. She makes all the decisions and beats you down when you try to assert yourself. She decides where you go on dates and who you go with. She may be isolating you from your regular friends. You are starting to become her lapdog. You may even begin to wonder if it matters that you exist in the relationship, as you have no voice. Your friends are definitely noticing. They are losing respect for you and see you as spineless. It is time to take back your self-respect and leave this woman!
這種女人專橫又盛氣凌人。事情全由她說(shuō)了算，而當(dāng)你試圖肯定自己時(shí)，她便來(lái)打壓你。她要決定你約會(huì)的地點(diǎn)和對(duì)象。她也許讓你與平常的好友生分。你開始成為其寵物狗，難逃她的手掌心。你甚至可能開始想既然你沒有發(fā)言權(quán)，那么你是否處在這段關(guān)系中還重要么?你的朋友們當(dāng)然會(huì)注意到你的處境。他們會(huì)認(rèn)為你沒骨氣，便不再怎么尊重你。是時(shí)候拾回自尊、離開這種女人了!
4. The needy one.
4、嬌滴滴的女人
She is a bottomless well of needs. Clingy, clingy, clingy. You must constantly reassure her of your love, and that everything in the relationship is okay. She wanted to get married from date three and believes you are her “soulmate.” If you don’t answer or respond to texts instantly she is in a panic. Forget about any “boy’s night out.” She will sulk and cry. Your phone will be blowing up all evening. There is no way for you to ever make this person feel secure and you may die trying.
這種女人的需求永無(wú)止盡。她們很粘人、特粘人、超級(jí)粘人。(重要的事情說(shuō)三遍!)你必須得不斷向她展現(xiàn)你對(duì)她的愛，告訴她你倆的關(guān)系沒有任何問(wèn)題。她會(huì)在與你約會(huì)三次后就想要結(jié)婚，并堅(jiān)信你就是她的“靈魂伴侶”。如果你沒有立馬回她的短信，她會(huì)惶恐不安。和她在一起，你就別想有男孩們的外出夜了，不然她會(huì)生悶氣、掉眼淚!而你的電話也會(huì)整晚響個(gè)不停。即便累死，你也沒辦法讓這樣的人安心。